Love marriage
Love marriage is a hard topic now a day and we all are aware of it. Marriage is a universal fact and we cannot deny its importance. Marriage is the name of the relation in which two people wow to live with each other in the form of family. They also wow to not to tell lies to each other and gave each other their best in every part of life.
Marriage is not my topic of discussion today the area of interest of my writing this article is to tell about the love marriage. Love marriage is a social taboo and the term love marriage as a social taboo use in Pakistan, India, Egypt and Europe.
Love marriage is a type of marriage in which a couple marriage without the permission of their parents, they do not care about the social norms of their society and they did not care about anything. This is a Soule decision of the couple and no one else involve in it.
What is the result of love marriage?
frankly, we found them in newspapers that
A girl has been killed by her brother with her husband due to their love marriage or we can see their pictures on a newspaper that their dead bodies are found on the hip of the pole. Not all marriages end like this we also see that the husband killed her wife because he thinks that if she can run with him she can easily run with any person and some time we also hear that the women commit suicide because his husband does not care about her and her children and he is now taking interest in someone else. We cannot forget about Karo Kari in Sindh in which brother kill their sister and no one has the permission to weep in their graves, and the government is also silent on this topic because the government gave them relaxation because they think it is a good point to killing that type of girl (I am talking about the courts of that areas).
Now how it starts (the concept of love marriage)?
It starts in 19 centuries in Europe when a writer writes about the story of a philosopher of 18 century who fall in love with her students. They secretly marry and got a child. It is a big story but the main point of me telling this story is that her parents kill the child and force her to marries with another person who they think best for her. another example of Europe in 19 centuries is that the queen Elizabeth marriage is also loving marriage when it happens now the people start to think at that time that a queen can marry so they can also have the right to do the same thing. Many cases of that found in India and Egypt at that time and now and the number of people dying is also increased in those cities at that time due to the result of love marriage.
Now come to our country Pakistan?
Our country is not behind other countries on that issue. As I say above the result of love marriage is not good and they mostly find dead or killed by their family.
Now how it begins?
it may be the result of the internet friendship like Facebook, dating sites, weheartit and now a new app which also become the cause of that type of event is how to learn Facebook and how to communicate with others and talk space this type of apps badly affects the youth of not our country but also others. The ads on the advertisement of the game mostly fill with naked men and females which take our youth to that places.
And sorry I forget about universities and colleges?
As to say frankly the universities and colleges did not promote that type of things or events and cultures but oh sorry I forget about the students of the universities. Mostly the cases reported the boys say that my friend has a girlfriend so why do not I have one. Mostly the boys fall in them in the result of bet because they have to win a bet against their friend to impress that girl and somewhat same thing but the result is worst. Mostly the simple talk becomes increase and they fall in love with each other result death and killing mostly after the marriage.
Sorry, I forget about girls?
It is not only the problem of the boys because they fall for girls…… the girls also have the equal part in it. Mostly the reasons for girl to take that step is that she watches tv drams whole day which is completely opposite of our culture and the stories are mostly love and romantic mostly consist of a happy ending. Which is the complete opposite picture of our society?
Frankly we all are aware of it…. oh I forget about the parents who let their daughter to wear gens and pants and when something happens they say she is that type of they kill her ………. what about their teaching they totally forget about it .. if she takes that step it is because they gave her full rights and now they are saying she cannot do it…if they have to hold their daughter they will have to hold her from the start ……
Oh…… I forget about psychological viewpoints?
Psychology says the person seek love in other is his/her instinct and we cannot deny it. The child takes this type of step mostly when he/she does not get proper attention from their parents which they aspect from their parents and then they try to seek from other people and the result are we all known that most of them are dead and their ending is not good.
Now what we have to do to stop that type of things first of all we have to parents to gave proper attention to their parents so they did not try to find love in other places. Second, they have to take note of what type of thing their children are watching because now sorry to say that media kill peoples they show the wrong picture of society, not all media is wrong but most of them so parents should have to take note what their children are watching and they should have to make their children their good friends. When the children become their good friend, they can solve anything. love-arrange marriage also helps to solve the problem now a day when the family also become happy and they are not against their children friendship so they make them married.
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m jazz
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